June 16, 2025 Β· Leave a Comment
Daily Life in Sicily That Wasnβt Planned But Meant Everything
This wasnβt a vacation or scripted, but daily life in Sicily that reminded us why life here feels so vivid and full. From quiet towns and ocean views to new friends and unexpected moments, it was the kind of week that unfolds on its own, showing you what matters most when you let go of the schedule and just live.
In fact, daily life in Sicily gave us a fresh look at everyday life here, the rhythms and surprises that make this place special beyond the usual tourist spots. Itβs these small, unscripted moments that reveal the true character of the island and why so many feel drawn to call it home.
A Zucchini Side Dish, a Jackhammer, and an Early Start
The week began with a broken pipe behind our cottage in Carini. Workers were coming, jackhammers in tow. Rather than stick around, we left early for a lunch invitation at Susan and Stevenβs and turned it into a full-day outing.
Before we even got out of Carini, we found ourselves behind a vehicle with clothes hanging all around the outside, an image more memorable than anything in a boutique window. It was a perfect little reminder of the charming unpredictability you find everywhere here.
Morning in Capaci: Coffee, Fountains, and a Sorrel Horse
Our first real stop was Capaci. We grabbed an espresso and cappuccino at Calici Γ© CaffΓ©, lingered for a few minutes, and then set off to explore. The main square held a large fountain, a quiet church, and a tucked-away butcher shop.
We passed locals resting on benches and were suddenly overtaken by a group of cyclists racing by. An old stone fountain caught our eye, still working after centuries. Just as we were about to turn back, a man strolled by leading a sorrel horse. A few steps later, we saw carved stone lions under a buildingβs terrace.
These small details were unforgettable. Exploring Capaci reminded us that even everyday rhythms in Sicily are full of rich, heartwarming encounters.
Longo Bakery: Four Generations of Tradition
Then came a spontaneous stop. We hadnβt planned to go into Longo Bakery, but something about it pulled us in. The man behind the counter turned out to be Mr. Longo himself, a fourth-generation baker whose great-grandfather started the business.
He told us about the time he and his wife made a 400-kilo cassata and gave it away to the whole town. Every pastry in the glass cases looked like artwork: cannoli, ricotta-filled sweets, handmade candies, gelato, and miniature desserts too perfect to touch.
We thanked Mr. Longo for his warmth and headed toward the coast, carrying with us the sweet taste of history and hospitality.
Isola delle Femmine: Ocean Views and Another Cappuccino
Our next stop was Isola delle Femmine. We parked near the water, though not without a challenge since the EasyPark app wasnβt working. While Croce found a parking meter, I crossed the street to take in the sea views, framed by distant mountains.
We popped into Gran CaffΓ© for a break. I had another cappuccino, and this time I couldnβt resist filming the pastry case, with permission, of course. Croce didnβt get anything, surprisingly, but the cozy atmosphere made it a perfect spot to relax.
The peaceful atmosphere and salty sea breeze made the whole experience unforgettable. These quiet pauses, simple and unplanned, are what shape daily life in Sicily. They remind you to slow down, breathe, and appreciate the little joys youβd miss in busier places.
A Scenic Detour in Trabia
We still had time before lunch, so we decided to explore Trabia, somewhere weβd never stopped before. As we drove along the highway, I asked Croce to pull over. The view took my breath away.
It might have been the most beautiful sight Iβve seen in Sicily so far. The bay looked like a postcard, the light soft and perfect. That clear June day, during slow Sicilian living, is something Iβll remember forever.
The scenic views reminded us again why daily life in Sicily is more than just time passing. Watching the small boats bob gently on the water, I felt a deep sense of peace.
Lunch With Friends in the Hills
When we arrived at Susan and Stevenβs villa, we were greeted with hugs and warm hellos from Joe and Diana. The house felt alive with laughter and the kind of easy togetherness that doesnβt need effort.
We walked up to the rooftop veranda and took in panoramic views of the Sicilian mountains and the Tyrrhenian Sea. A soft haze made the light almost dreamlike. The mountains stood tall while the sea sparkled below.
Lunch was incredible. Homemade dishes, sweet desserts, and good conversation filled the afternoon. Seeing Bri and Nino again was a highlight, and we left with full bellies and even fuller hearts.
Stories With Giovanni and Vita
Midweek, we met our neighbor Giovanni and his friend Vita for dinner. Giovanni is 83 and full of stories, about painting houses in New York and Switzerland and about never really stopping his love for Carini.
He told us about his two homes: the one he lives in, and a country house where they spend three or four months a year. His voice carried more than nostalgia. It carried peace. The way he described the slower pace of life in the countryside made me want to soak in more of the moments we often rush past.
We shared a relaxed evening filled with heartfelt conversation. These are the kinds of moments that shape life here.
Back to Carini, Then Off to Balestrate
On Friday afternoon we met up with Rosario and Giovanna. Both were born in Carini but raised their family in Philadelphia. Their grandkids now speak a mix of English and Italian.
Being with them felt effortless. That same evening, we headed to Balestrate to visit Joe and Diana again. We played cards, laughed, and walked through their town, catching up on the week and practicing a little Italian.
Dinner at Terra Mia was perfect. Joeβs pizza looked amazing, and the whole meal hit the spot. Afterward, we strolled through the town square, alive with energy, families, kids on scooters, and outdoor cafΓ©s buzzing with conversation.
Live music filled the air. It was a night full of small joys that made us pause and take it all in.
The Week That Grounded Us
We didnβt film any of this to prove a point. It wasnβt meant to be content. It was just a week.
But it was a week that reminded us why life in Sicily feels so alive. Not because itβs perfect, but because it pulls you into the moment. And this week, we let ourselves be fully present.
From the unexpected scenes in Capaci to the rooftop views in the hills, from roadside ocean stops to spontaneous dinners with friends, it all came together without effort, without planning. Just real life in Sicily, one beautiful moment at a time.
If you’re curious about what itβs really like to move here, we shared more in Our Journey: Relocating to Sicily from the USA in Our 60s.
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Thank you so much, Pam! We had such a great time. Appreciate you stopping by.
Blessings, ~ Croce & Carol Amato